And a few thoughts best kept to ourselves.
We were going to write another Dussehra & Diwali blog about our products. Thoughtful gifts. Beautiful tables. Something about a serving bowl making your festive season unforgettable. Yada yada…then we thought of making it different and hence, this time, let’s talk about the people; our people!
The ones who remember the extra guests, collect the mithai and notice that the person who cooked everything still hasn’t eaten. Somewhere behind every lovely Diwali photograph, they’re still getting things done. With the Ramayana woven into how many of us celebrate, here’s an affectionate look at the qualities its characters bring to mind - and the people we recognize at home.
A small note: This piece uses familiar characters from the Ramayana as a light-hearted way to reflect on the different personalities we see during Diwali. It is intended purely as a cultural and creative interpretation, with respect for the characters, traditions and beliefs associated with them. It is not intended to reinterpret, diminish or offend any religious belief or sentiment.
The Ram who keeps everyone calm
The delivery is late. Three extra guests have arrived. Someone has a dietary preference they could have mentioned yesterday. This person says, “It’s fine, we’ll manage.” Somehow, everyone believes them. Please give five peaceful minutes. They’ve been managing since breakfast.
The Sita whose quiet strength we rely on
They adapt when plans change, know what matters and can say, “We don’t need to do all of that,” despite the family WhatsApp group’s ambitious plans. Perhaps this year, don’t reward their capability with three more jobs. Take one off their hands.
The Hanuman who says, “I’ll sort it”
You mention a problem. They’re already putting on their shoes. An emergency ingredient, an airport pickup, two extra chairs - they make things happen. “You’re so good at this” should occasionally be followed by “Sit down. I’ll do it.”
The Lakshman beside the person getting the compliments
Someone is being congratulated on a wonderful evening. Beside them is the person who found the spare glasses, coordinated the deliveries and knows why that extension cord must not be unplugged. They’ll still be helping after everyone leaves. Remember them when you’re giving out the credit.
And our inner Kumbhakarna
They sat down “for two minutes” after lunch. Now the family is deciding whether to wake them for the photograph or arrange everyone around them. We recognise this person. Some years, we are this person.
As for Ravana…
Let’s not (please) nominate a relative. Don’t want to start a kalesh and remember, we still have to see them next Diwali. Instead start with the thoughts in our own heads. We mean those tiny, uncharitable thoughts that interrupt our festive goodwill.
- “May the divine radiance of a thousand lamps…” Lovely. But who is this, and when did we last speak?
- Would “Same to you 🙏” cover the next forty-seven messages?
- That mithai box looks familiar. Has it come back to us already?
- I love having everyone over. I would also love everyone to leave.
A little dramatic? Yes. Occasionally us? Also yes. Most of us play several parts over the evening. Calm at six. Helpful at seven. Quietly protecting the last kaju katli by nine.
Before this Diwali rushes past, let’s take a moment to thank the people who have made it happen and who will (yet again) make it happen - personally, if we can, or quietly in our own minds.
And now, let’s have a little fun while we’re at it. You’ve probably recognised a few people by now. But which bits sound suspiciously like you? Pick your answers to the five questions below, then head to our Instagram Reel to enter. And if you have a funny Diwali confession, there’s room for that too. No essays needed—just a little festive honesty.
1. You’re the Ram of the family. You’re most likely to…
- Say “It’s all under control” while quietly changing the entire plan.
- Settle the annual “Whose house first?” debate without starting another one.
- Give everyone a job, then discover they’re all still asking you what to do.
2. You’re the Sita of the family. You’re most likely to…
- Cut the fourteen-dish menu to seven - and refuse to feel guilty.
- Say “We have enough” while someone orders snacks for another twenty people.
- Firmly announce, “Everyone sits down together this year. Including me.”
3. You’re the Hanuman of the family. Your most likely mission?
- An ingredient run that becomes seven errands.
- Picking up relatives who are “just coming.”
- Finding chairs nobody knew we owned.
4. Your inner Kumbhakarna appears…
- Immediately after the festive lunch.
- The moment you sit down “just to charge my phone.”
- The moment someone says, “Who’ll help clear up?”
5. It’s late. The guests show no signs of leaving. Your tiny Ravana thought?
- Shall I start stacking the chairs?
- Would changing into pyjamas be too direct?
- If I say “breakfast?”, will they understand?
6. Your Diwali confession—in one line (optional)
What’s the funniest thing you’ve done, thought or witnessed during Diwali?
We’ll go first: “We recognised our own mithai box when someone gifted it back to us.”
Come and confess on Instagram
Head to our Diwali Giveaway Post and leave your five answers in one comment eg: 1A, 2C, 3B, 4A, 5B. Add your one-line Diwali confession if you like. We promise you’re among friends.
We’ll select two winners through a lucky draw from the valid entries that follow all the steps mentioned in the caption. Each winner will receive a KitchenCraft 300ml Premium Blue Floral Design Bone China Tea & Coffee Mug — a little Diwali treat from all of us.
One entry per person. Answer all five multiple-choice questions to enter. The confession is optional and won’t affect your chances of winning.
Entries close 4th Nov 2026
Winner announcement on 5th Nov 2026.
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Related read: Explore our Diwali gifting guide for thoughtful ideas beyond the usual mithai box.